Ok, So this may be even hard for ME to understand. But I have come to the conclusion, that this is SO SO SO true and so important to know. If you are in constant thought of "why me?","i shouldn't be going through this","why do all bad things happen to good people?"...etc. It's because God is testing you at your hardest time...How much you can take. He knows you will GET THROUGH IT. So don't think less of Him when this happens. Sometimes it's just too hard to understand, after all, It's God who we're talking about, He's almighty, powerful and HONEST. Praise him and thank him EVERY DAY for all that you have. If it were not FOR HIM, you wouldn't be here right now, today reading this.